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a typical New England town common |
Reverse
culture shock really exists…especially
after 50 years in another
country.
My recent visit to the States lasted
12 days and each day I discovered
several reasons why I could no longer live there .
Here are a few things that bothered me …and a few positive
things that I liked :
1. the absurdity of wooden poles
to hold up heavy power lines, often
cutting through magnificent trees
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chrysantemums were everywhere... in Italy it is a flower only for the dead
and cemeteries |
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the autumn foilage was brilliant |
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painting expressing the fast pace of life |
2 the
fast pace of life— suburban
Americans are chained to their cars: there are drive thru (even the spelling is rushed!) lanes to pickup cardboard containers of horrible coffee
and donuts.
Even banks and pharmacies are outfitted
with drive thru lanes and
windows. What is all the rush
about? We felt weird being the only people walking
along the sidewalk during the week, yet bike trails were crowded with bikers on weekends.
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the very busy drive thru lane at Dunkin Donuts |
3. the huge
portions of food at restaurants, fried onion rings, bare tables with not a tablecloth in sight
4. the ever
present air conditioning… the temperature of our hotel suite’s was Siberian each time we entered and the beds
were equipped with down
comforters…so it was either freeze or
sweat. The windows opened only a crack.
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magnificent, but chilly, hotel lobby |
5.the tipping dilemma, how much and when to tip? to the waiter, the shuttle bus driver ? Being used to Italy’s family
owned restaurants and services, made it difficult to figure out.
There were
many positive discoveries too.
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historic homes open to public |
1. The lovely museums
and historic homes that were open
to the public, even if the Federal shutdown meant that major national parks and sites were
closed
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at the Chelmsford historical museum |
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another private home open to visitors |
2. Isabella Stewart Gardner Museum in Boston with its Gothic Room, the new wing and restaurant where we met curator Anne Marie Eze for lunch and exchange of books
3. Senior discounts were given by our hotel, the train to Boston and even Dunkin Donuts
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cub scouts near the hotel |
4. No sales tax in New Hampshire meant
I saved on a lot on purchases at
the Mall, including $35 tax off the purchase of an iPad (now I have to learn to use it )
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a violin serenade for 100 year old Aunt Mamie |
5. The joy of seeing family and participating in
several marvelous festivities: the 100th
birthday celebration of Aunt Mamie , the meet up with old family friends and the wild wedding weekend of my beautiful
niece Shana.
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getting together with all my brothers and sisters |
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seeing the younger generation of the family ... |
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and visiting with 101 year old friend Eleanor and her daughters Val and Ellie |
Have you
experienced culture shock when
going back to the States?