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| a typical New England  town common | 
Reverse
culture shock really exists…especially 
after 50 years  in another
country. 
My recent  visit to the States  lasted 
12 days and each day  I discovered
several reasons why I could no longer  live there .
 
Here are a few   things that bothered me …and a few positive
things that I liked : 
1.  the absurdity of  wooden poles 
to hold   up heavy power lines, often
cutting through magnificent trees 
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| chrysantemums were everywhere... in Italy  it is a flower only for the dead and cemeteries
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| the autumn foilage  was brilliant | 
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| painting  expressing  the fast pace of life | 
2  the  
fast pace  of life— suburban
Americans  are   chained to their cars: there are   drive thru (even the spelling  is rushed!) lanes  to pickup cardboard containers of horrible coffee
and donuts.
Even banks and pharmacies  are outfitted 
with drive thru lanes   and
windows.  What is all the rush
about?   We felt weird being  the only people  walking 
along the sidewalk during the week, yet  bike trails  were crowded with bikers on weekends.
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| the very busy drive thru lane at Dunkin Donuts | 
3. the huge
portions of food at restaurants, fried onion rings,  bare tables with not a tablecloth in sight
 
4. the ever
present air conditioning… the  temperature of   our hotel suite’s was  Siberian each time we entered  and the beds 
were  equipped with down
comforters…so it was either  freeze  or 
sweat. The windows  opened  only a crack. 
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| magnificent, but chilly,  hotel lobby | 
5.the  tipping dilemma, how much  and when to tip?  to the waiter, the shuttle bus  driver ? Being used to Italy’s family
owned  restaurants and  services, made it difficult  to figure out.
There were
many  positive  discoveries too. 
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| historic homes open  to public | 
1.      The lovely  museums 
and  historic homes that were  open 
to the public, even if the Federal shutdown meant that  major national parks and sites were
closed
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| at the Chelmsford   historical museum | 
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| another private home   open to visitors | 
2.      Isabella Stewart Gardner Museum  in Boston with its  Gothic Room, the  new wing and  restaurant where we met  curator Anne Marie Eze  for lunch and exchange of books
3.      Senior discounts were given by   our  hotel, the train  to Boston and even Dunkin Donuts  
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| cub scouts   near the hotel | 
4.      No sales tax  in New Hampshire  meant 
I saved  on a lot on purchases at
the Mall, including   $35 tax off the purchase of an iPad  (now I have to learn  to use it ) 
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| a violin  serenade  for  100 year old  Aunt Mamie | 
5.      The joy of  seeing family and participating in
several  marvelous festivities: the 100th
birthday celebration of Aunt Mamie , the meet up with old family friends  and the wild wedding weekend of my beautiful
niece Shana.
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| getting together  with all   my brothers and sisters | 
 
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| seeing  the younger generation of the family ... | 
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| and visiting with  101 year old friend Eleanor and her daughters  Val and Ellie | 
  
Have you 
experienced culture shock  when
going back to the States?