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| typical New England lunch: clam chowder & lobster roll at Fishbones, Chelmsford | 
  
Every once
in a while during my  50+ years  of living in Italy I
get a chance to  return to  USA . This  time  my
trip coincided  with that of Papa
Francesco and while he was having  meetings with VIPs and  prisoners 
I  visited New England  relatives and attended  my 50th college reunion in Buffalo, N.Y.  
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| Roberta Witts at her  art and framing gallery, Chelmsford, MA | 
  With  my
brother and sister-in-law  I visited  numerous small towns  in the rolling hills  between Massachusetts and New Hampshire where
they live. 
We  stopped  at  farm
stalls and antique shops,  ate in local
Italian (and non) restaurants and  enjoyed
  the first  signs of fall foliage, when the trees turn  bright red and gold. 
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| their first visit to neighboring vineyard | 
Since my
brother and his wife have no intention of coming to visit me in Italy,  one of the things I wanted to do was find
some Italian style food and places for them to enjoy  right in their own backyard. I must say that my
mission turned out quite successfully.  
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| Al Fulchino's winery   offers  dinners and opera as well as wine | 
Things have
changed  since I was growing up in New England,
now   Italian wine and handmade pasta 
are readily  available  as we discovered during our day trips around   the  picturesque
countryside which  resembles  Tuscany and my local area -Tuscia, 60 kms north of Rome. 
Within  10 miles 
of their home we found the  Fulchino vineyard   in Hollis , N.H. and tasted some of their wonderful wines  along with excellent Wisconsin cheeses.  
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| This lovely Tuscan style villa houses the Fulchino Vineyard | 
 
 Owner Al Fulchino told us about the  special dinners with opera singers that are
held at the Winery  which are a great
way  to 
enjoy Italian lifestyle without flying over to Italy.  
For those who live in central Italy  Opera Extravaganza’s  house concerts and musical events can be enjoyed
here in Vetralla .  (www.operaextravaganza.com ) 
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| pasta and wine now available in New England small towns | 
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| Valicenti organic pasta sauces | 
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| cheeses from all over the world including  fresh mozzarella | 
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| Young owner at Valicenti Pasta Farm | 
Also in
Hollis, N.H. we found  the Valicenti  Pasta Farm where an  Italian-Irish couple produce  wonderful pasta, ravioli  and pasta sauces  in many different varieties. Valicenti Pasta
Farm sell from their big yellow barn where the perfumes  of pasta sauces  fill the air.  They sell their wares at numerous  farmers markets and deliver to the top
restaurants in the  area and in Boston.   Check
their website www.gimmiespaghetti.com  
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| chrysanthemums are a seasonal flower in both US and Italy | 
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| beautiful tomatoes at Kimball and Lull farms near Pepperell, MA | 
Other  farm stands  along the road  sell huge varieties of tomatoes and  pumpkins 
as well as  mums which are
used to  decorate cemeteries  in Italy 
in November.  
   
Since   the Carrabba's restaurant group had  filmed a 
commercial in Vetralla  about a  year ago, 
I was curious to see what their 
food  and restaurants were REALLY like so one evening we drove over there for dinner.
   At  7p.m. on a Monday  the parking lot was full, lots of people at
the bar and getting “takeaway” and  people waiting to be seated  but when we
left  at 8:30 pm  the place was empty!  
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| 8:30 p.m.  and the place is empty | 
When I went
up to the kitchen area  to  take a few photos of the chefs preparing
salads (as shown in their TV commercials) the manager   told me 
that company policy  forbade photo
taking except  of the clients who might
be celebrating at their table.  
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| sideways dipping  at fake marble table | 
 
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| fettuccine Carrabba | 
 A few cultural differences that annoyed me after a lifetime here in Italy:  waiting in line to be seated, being stuffed into a narrow booth (we changed for a  round table), a fakey/ friendly loud waitress, a bowl of generic
olive oil and bread  for dipping
before the meal, the price of wine and the 
tipping.  The food was good  and since 
portions  are so large, doggy bags
are a necessity. 
Does anyone else  get reverse culture shock when returning to their home country?
Hope  you will  share with friends and leave comments.
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